Victorian social customs were ruled by a strict code of etiquette, the language of flowers allowed them to express feelings and sentiments that might not have been acceptable to speak out loud. Young ladies and gentlemen would carry small bouquets with them while out as flowers were considered a more appropriate accessory than jewelry for Victorian youth. They often had accessories such as elaborate holders and vases to keep the arrangements fresh. These small bouquets were called Tussie-Mussies. The combination of flowers in the bouquet would convey a deeper meaning when combined and could be exchanged as gifts.  The way in which the Tussie-Mussie was presented or received also contained meaning. If the bouquet was presented upright from the level of the heart, that was a positive sign of affection or love. If the bouquet once received was held upside down the message was not positive. 

While the popularity of the complicated parlor game of flower language has faded, people still ascribe meaning to certain flowers. Red roses are associated with passionate love, making it the most popular flower on Valentine’s Day. White roses, as often used in wedding bouquets, are commonly associated with purity. You might give yellow roses as a gesture of friendship. Generally, spring flowers are symbols of rebirth as many naturalize well and bloom year after year making them a harbinger of spring.

As you stroll through the Spring Flower Show: A Bloom for Every Room, keep in mind the traditional symbolism of some common spring flowers. We encourage you to contemplate the flowers that greet you in each room! Palm Court will be filled with tulips in many colors, red representing love, white representing purity or inspiration, and a profusion of yellow tulips representing friendship and joy! Also notice the complimenting Hydrangeas which can represent gratitude, perhaps for the warm spring weather.

The Serpentine Room is dedicated to the dandelion; this everyday bloom symbolizes resilience and hope, as it thrives under the most challenging conditions. It is one of the first flowers to bloom in the spring, making it an important source of food for the awakening bees. The Dandelion topiaries are surrounded by bright blue daisies, which represent happiness. You will also see anthuriums symbolizing love and creativity.

In the South Conservatory, the focus is on the Snapdragon. Traditionally, Snapdragons represent strength and grace, as they often grow in rocky areas where more delicate blooms will not flourish. The beds are accented with lobelia the bright blue variety represents a gentle and kind spirit or tranquility.  Notice the white Narcissus Thalia, named after the Muse of poetry and festivities, that adds joy to the homey room.

The traditional meanings attributed to flowers are drawn from cultural traditions, mythology or traits of the flower, but the most valuable significance comes from the memories and experiences of individuals. As you walk through Spring Flower Show, let the flowers, fragrance and colors remind you of a treasured memory or simply inspire you for the season ahead!

Photos © Paul Vladuchick